Later last year, 2008, I was wishing and itching to get away from where I am currently. Then suddenly, the opportunity was given to me; handed to me when I least expected it. 2 weeks from now, I will be based in Singapore indefinitely. Imagine the excitement when I got the offer. I was feeling that tingling sense of adventure and freedom.
As I started sorting and packing my things, now and then I get mood swings. I easily get irritated and sensitive. I was at times feeling down, like all the excitement just drained out of my system in an instant. Then after a while, I slowly go back to being excited again. It got me thinking…is this my reaction to the thought of being farther away from home and consequently be really lonely? I guess even with all the adventure that I’ll be having and the freedom that I desperately need…amidst all that, there lies a fear of feeling a totally different kind of loneliness lurking in a small corner of my heart.
Loneliness from not having to see the familiar faces in the house and in the office. I’ll be missing those routines that I have developed and the comfort it brings. Somehow I’ll even miss those hard realities that enveloped my life here. It is sometimes hard to swallow that I’ll be living in a different “world” in a couple of weeks. Maybe change has that effect on people.
I am very thankful of the great opportunity that was given to me, its just that the “loneliness” part of it is something that sometimes eats me up. I’ll be missing A LOT of familiar things. I will just keep on reminding myself that I will also be having a new adventure.
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